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OMG, good luck...

I got out the test delayed to next fortnight, good for me.
One thing to rant are camps with a lot of people in general. They all seem so childish and repetitive, every single one of them. Hope this one won't be like that.

Delays, there's always delays. I got much delays in my life, they're costing my happiness...

(But at least you got the good kind of delay Kakama)

No deal on that new guy I was talking to. He proved me today that its not worth investing in something more than friends. Hell at this point a friendship seems unlikely.

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Whatever, another guy I've spent about two weeks talking to gave me his phone number, even though we both have stated we have no interest in meeting offline, maybe things will change?

Hope for the best.

I'm probably acting entitled in this case, but I still feel ignored and disrespected. I get it, he had a busy day, but how hard is it to let me know he wont be able to make it? Better yet, he claims he's sorry and he's stressed, but the same site we met on, I saw him active on several times throughout the day.

So much for being busy...

I've learned in this case, when a person chooses to browse a dating site, instead of talk to you, they aren't interested and its time to move on. I'm not saying he doesn't have the right to browse the site, but don't lie to me and say you're busy, and choose to do something which clearly shows you aren't really that busy (other than busy talking to other guys)

:/

I sent him a message letting him know to not contact me again. I feel a tad guilty, but it had to be done. This wasn't the only issue, I had began to question his motives and also his story. It changed a few times. I think when you are questioning someone's motives when you are dating them, there is a problem.

You gotta find someone in real life. Sure it's a bit more difficult, but you'll more likely get more truth that way.

And just how do I do that? Go up to a guy and say "nice ass, wanna fuck?"

Oh no see I can't tell who's gay or straight, I'm not a people person, I can't approach strangers, I'd rather strangers approach me. I have to resort to online so I know the person a little bit before meeting. I'm not into clubs, bars, etc. I'm a goddamn introvert.

Besides, I figure if there is someone out there they are probably in another town, city, state, country. Kalamazoo has nothing. This is a dead town overran by crime and racism.