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but you did meet her, no?

I just want to find a girl that likes of how I am, actualy many of them, I know fate of distance relationships, so I was never planing to keep one.

Many of them? you want to be in multiple relationships at once?

LOL no, one relation after another and another and another, until I get used to it...

That makes more sense XD

ENIHCAMBUS wrote:LOL no, one relation after another and another and another, until I get used to it...

What the ef did I just read?!

Nobody wants to be dated just for practice

Its not for practice, when I said about getting used, I meant to the feelings, not the dating itself.

But that phrase gives the impression that you just want to use the girls as a tool for yourself, that you are already expecting/"planning" that your relationships are going to end. I'm not saying it's bad, but if you say that in the open I don't think many people would want to date you seriously.

Imagine that you're with a girl that secretly thinks that you're going to be just one of many, that you're a very nice guy but you're not special for her because she knows the relationship is gonna end eventually, and she'll enjoy you while she can. You'd probably think that she doesn't really want a serious relationship with you, so you won't engage as much and give everything you could. That's assuming you take it well, some people would just think she's selfish, or she won't have any scruples in cheating.

ENIHCAMBUS wrote:Its not for practice, when I said about getting used, I meant to the feelings, not the dating itself.

That's not any better.

The only valid reason for being in a relationship is that you truly care for the person you are in a relationship with. And that other person cares for you, too.

Don't worry guys, I just went briefly insane again, as I usually do after a shocking incident. My subconscious told me to not do this, and you convinced me.

I think there's no way someone like me could ever have someone, I'll just wait until robotics advances long enough so robot mates can exist.